nickm
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Mar 11, 2020 8:11:07 GMT
Post by nickm on Mar 11, 2020 8:11:07 GMT
Hello to you all.
I've just lost yet another good job, due to my inability to properly communicate and my horrible impulsive nature.
I've waited almost a year now for a referral, with nothing in sight and am really struggling to cope on a daily basis.
Any advice would be appreciated, from anyone in a similar boat. I work in a very unforgiving industry and am finding things getting worse.
Thanks.
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Post by speedy1 on Mar 12, 2020 20:16:11 GMT
Time 4 a career change maybe?
I've been sacked from 7 jobs and had my final written in almost every other job
And I've had over 30 jobs
I've discovered that when a job is new I don't get into trouble
When the novelty wears off though...
it's like my brain sabotages me
It says either u leave or I'm gonna get u sacked
My friends call it my self destruct button
When things r running smoothly that's when it gets activated
I think it's something 2 do with my brains constant quest 4 dopamine
New job is exciting and a bit scary
All things that release dopamine
U've got 2 retrain ure brain
U need 2 teach it that u can get a dopamine fix through work by getting praise
I have discovered that I'm very simple
I absolutely crave a pat on the head
I'll even take a sarcastic one
If I don't get praise I'll settle for a bollocking it kinda releases adrenalin which releases dopamine
But I feel better for getting praised
it's even better if u can praise yourself
As in look at your bank balance going up surely that makes anyone happy
But all will be in vane if u hate your job
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