Post by magicnick1990 on Jul 2, 2009 22:43:22 GMT
OK, this is very long so anyone who has reading stamina, please please answer this question seriously and honestly. I will return the favor ten times over. Thank you.
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I'm back in touch with a friend after three years.
I went to school with her, we were good friends, I knew her as a little kid too but then she moved. Then moved back and we reacquainted in high school.
Walked to school everyday together and basically drank and kissed every weekend for about two years. We were like... 15/16.
Now we're both 19. She's had a baby but broken up with the dad for good.
Anyway, I'm completely and totally in love with her, always have been. She makes my stomach do cartwheels, my eyes melt and I love every aspect of her. She's my muse.
She said she just wants to be friends though. I found that out after I poured my every thought out to her in some texts lol. I know, a cowards way to do it but I haven't got the balls to say it to her face with the possibility if making us both THAT awkward.
I think I'm higher in her chart than just friend lol, we've always seemed to have "something" if that makes any sense. But I don't think she likes me in that way anymore.
What's annoying is though she seems to be flirting, or maybe she's just being nice, I'm trying to figure out if she does that with most boys. She also seems to dress up a bit when I go down but again could just be normal I can't tell...
By the way girls, if you were in her position... I know everyone is different but say you really did like me. Would you possibly say you just wanted to be friends because I'm trying to move things along too fast and she has a baby etc. or for any other reason.
Have you ever told a boy you only like him as a friend when you really think of him as more. Possibly don't wanna ruin the friendship?
Anyway, she knows I totally worship the ground she walks on, should I try maybe... Not doing that?
I'm not really for mind games but do you think it'd be better to lay off the lovey dovey, constantly trying to be the king in her eyes vibe. Maybe she would start to like me again if I played it cool lol?
Do stuff like just call her m8 in texts and talk to other people more than her when I'm down her house and stop with the flirty looks.
That could work totally against me too. Anyone with any experience on this or any women who could even try to gauge a guess as to if she does like me but is holding back for some reason or if I'm destined to be stuck in the friend zone for life...
Pictures of both of us:
Me:
i602.photobucket.com/albums/tt103/magicnick1990/DSC01044.jpg
Her:
i602.photobucket.com/albums/tt103/magicnick1990/stacie.jpg
Do you also think she's out of my league looks wise. Not her best picture and it's three years old lol but trust me, she's gorgeous.
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I'm back in touch with a friend after three years.
I went to school with her, we were good friends, I knew her as a little kid too but then she moved. Then moved back and we reacquainted in high school.
Walked to school everyday together and basically drank and kissed every weekend for about two years. We were like... 15/16.
Now we're both 19. She's had a baby but broken up with the dad for good.
Anyway, I'm completely and totally in love with her, always have been. She makes my stomach do cartwheels, my eyes melt and I love every aspect of her. She's my muse.
She said she just wants to be friends though. I found that out after I poured my every thought out to her in some texts lol. I know, a cowards way to do it but I haven't got the balls to say it to her face with the possibility if making us both THAT awkward.
I think I'm higher in her chart than just friend lol, we've always seemed to have "something" if that makes any sense. But I don't think she likes me in that way anymore.
What's annoying is though she seems to be flirting, or maybe she's just being nice, I'm trying to figure out if she does that with most boys. She also seems to dress up a bit when I go down but again could just be normal I can't tell...
By the way girls, if you were in her position... I know everyone is different but say you really did like me. Would you possibly say you just wanted to be friends because I'm trying to move things along too fast and she has a baby etc. or for any other reason.
Have you ever told a boy you only like him as a friend when you really think of him as more. Possibly don't wanna ruin the friendship?
Anyway, she knows I totally worship the ground she walks on, should I try maybe... Not doing that?
I'm not really for mind games but do you think it'd be better to lay off the lovey dovey, constantly trying to be the king in her eyes vibe. Maybe she would start to like me again if I played it cool lol?
Do stuff like just call her m8 in texts and talk to other people more than her when I'm down her house and stop with the flirty looks.
That could work totally against me too. Anyone with any experience on this or any women who could even try to gauge a guess as to if she does like me but is holding back for some reason or if I'm destined to be stuck in the friend zone for life...
Pictures of both of us:
Me:
i602.photobucket.com/albums/tt103/magicnick1990/DSC01044.jpg
Her:
i602.photobucket.com/albums/tt103/magicnick1990/stacie.jpg
Do you also think she's out of my league looks wise. Not her best picture and it's three years old lol but trust me, she's gorgeous.