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Post by redneck on Jul 23, 2009 15:30:34 GMT
Just because people are adhd it doesnt necesrily mean that they can get on with each other. Through other websites I met 4 individuals all adhd. 2 of them fantastic we are still friends, the other two - no way, apart from adhd we had totally NOTHING in common at all. One of them even went on to malign me in various quarters but thats another story and a very boring one at that.
Wjat Im trying to say is yes we might all be adhd but that doesnt mean we will get on in the real world, we all have other differences aswell.
Am I just talking shite or does anybody get what I man (probs the first one I guess)
Red
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Post by Deleted on Jul 23, 2009 20:54:47 GMT
Know that feeling not with anyone on here or at support group but I think its like to close a similarity makes people clash. Its funny Ive seen people with exactly the same personalities absolutely detest each other because they are both used to conversation take over LOL
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Post by andy12345 on Jul 24, 2009 0:28:46 GMT
Well, people on this forum can get along pfttttttttttttttttttt. (prays to gods of whatever)
In the old dungeon and dragons board game there was an encounter reaction table. (players vs monsters) (Lawful good, lawful neutral, lawful evil, true neutral, chaotic good, chaotic neutral, chaotic evil. (beholders and the like, demons, I suppose)
So obviously, the further apart the alignment, the better the chance of a brawl. I suppose true neutrals were an exception, but obviously chaotic evil, well you get the idea.......
So, I can't create a reaction table, but yes, I suppose it's similar if you try and match the traits to the particular adder.
NOW, is it my turn to talk shite, or does this make sense??
Oh, of course, conversation take over constantly would leave me drained, frustrated etc especially if they were really hyper and switching stance and subjects. RUUUUUN AWWWWWAYYYYYY etc.
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Post by Deleted on Jul 24, 2009 1:26:17 GMT
hey redneck,
-you're very right, just because we all burn the toast, doesn't mean we'll all get along.
Most of the people that i chat to on this forum, i'd LOVE to meet... but occasionally i read a post and think, "i hope i never meet that idiot!" -although in truth that's very very rare! ;D
For me the great thing about chatting to all my forum chums, is that we've faced similar problems through our lives, and i know i can talk about my problems and people wont say "well if you wanted to succeed you'd just work harder" or that kinda rubbish! -because they understand what it's like.
also, you say you met 4 people and you're still friends with 2 of them... that's a pretty amazing hit-rate! so maybe that makes us all more likely to get along!
-MM
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Post by andy12345 on Jul 24, 2009 3:24:47 GMT
(hopes he is not an idiot)
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Post by Deleted on Jul 24, 2009 13:41:58 GMT
HAHAHA!... don't worry andy, it wasn't anyone that still posts on this forum, it was someone that turned up very briefly, -then went away again! ;D -Matt
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Post by andy12345 on Jul 24, 2009 20:11:48 GMT
(hopes that matt is not lying)
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