Post by magicnick1990 on Nov 10, 2009 0:26:58 GMT
Does anyone else here think that you may fall in and out of love easier or... More swiftly and abrubtly with ADHD. As... Well, I'm 19, I haven't had a proper girlfriend yet. I've had sex with two girls and kissed many others and you know, some other encounters but that's it.
Anyway... I was... Totally in love with this girl who I've known most my life. Went to my primary school, moved, then come back to my high school. We used to hang around 15-16. Then stopped. Then met up again not long ago, when I was like 18. She has a baby now, broken up with the guy. I realized my obsessive love with her had intensified even more than before lol.
Anyway, I eventually cut her out as not only did I realize she's not really that great / nice of a person but she doesn't like me in that way or says she doesn't but seemed to always flirt etc. I just couldn't handle it / be bothered with it anymore.
ANYWAY, so now I am seeing this girl who I've known, well, we've known 'of' each other for years but only been texting just over a week. Met up twice...
I did think that I just fancied her a bit as she looks a bit like this girl who was in my year at school who I reaaally fancy lmao. I actually felt a bit bad about that. BUT, now I've realized I actually fancy this girl in her own right. I really am attracted to her looks and personality.
Apart from the girl I was obsessed with, then one girl in-between who I think I scared off with my mental ADHD behaviour... This is it lmao. Three real girls. The 2nd girl I thought I loved too!
And now, well I don't think I'm in love with this girl but man, I get such intense feelings lmao and I wanna just be with her and hug her all the time now. I don't wanna be around other people with her, I'm awkward and can't display affection comfortably. I want her all to myself lmao.
But, I think I'm probably at risk at thinking I'm in love again.
Do you think people with ADHD and I believe I have an extreme case... Do you think it's possible they... Confuse love with intense over-thinking and comparison and... Or, maybe do actually fall in and out of love a lot easier as a true stimulation becomes addictive...
Anyway... I was... Totally in love with this girl who I've known most my life. Went to my primary school, moved, then come back to my high school. We used to hang around 15-16. Then stopped. Then met up again not long ago, when I was like 18. She has a baby now, broken up with the guy. I realized my obsessive love with her had intensified even more than before lol.
Anyway, I eventually cut her out as not only did I realize she's not really that great / nice of a person but she doesn't like me in that way or says she doesn't but seemed to always flirt etc. I just couldn't handle it / be bothered with it anymore.
ANYWAY, so now I am seeing this girl who I've known, well, we've known 'of' each other for years but only been texting just over a week. Met up twice...
I did think that I just fancied her a bit as she looks a bit like this girl who was in my year at school who I reaaally fancy lmao. I actually felt a bit bad about that. BUT, now I've realized I actually fancy this girl in her own right. I really am attracted to her looks and personality.
Apart from the girl I was obsessed with, then one girl in-between who I think I scared off with my mental ADHD behaviour... This is it lmao. Three real girls. The 2nd girl I thought I loved too!
And now, well I don't think I'm in love with this girl but man, I get such intense feelings lmao and I wanna just be with her and hug her all the time now. I don't wanna be around other people with her, I'm awkward and can't display affection comfortably. I want her all to myself lmao.
But, I think I'm probably at risk at thinking I'm in love again.
Do you think people with ADHD and I believe I have an extreme case... Do you think it's possible they... Confuse love with intense over-thinking and comparison and... Or, maybe do actually fall in and out of love a lot easier as a true stimulation becomes addictive...