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Post by Deleted on Nov 24, 2009 4:01:00 GMT
i've been thinking why i can never hold a conversation with anyone and i've come to the conclusion that i just dont know about anything even the things that i really should know about like games, football and tv shows.
for example a conversation between friends start up and they start talking about a tv show and im thinking YES FINALY! and i say something like did you see the bit with......... and thats it, thats all i can remember and my friends can go on about 5 mins just talking about the show! things dont stick im my head like other folk.
it seems everybody i meet has a lot of common knowledge and sometimes i think "im going to go home and research about all the things that they are interested in" but never actually do it.
its not like i'm not interested in the stuff, I AM! sometimes it feels like i just dont care, why the hell is that?
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Post by Deleted on Nov 24, 2009 7:47:37 GMT
same here zed sometimes
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Post by Deleted on Nov 24, 2009 8:38:19 GMT
Huge recognition of that Zed ('s dead baby).
I'm inclined to think it's the reason that I've never managed to get in to a sport in a proper bloke like way. I love a bit of rugby but I've got no fucking idea who plays, what position anyone is, or really any memory of the rules at all. I've got a few friends who very probably believe they could make a decent stab at running the English football team, and listening to them discuss players, specific games from history, any tactics at all, and it might as well be a different language, except for the fact I can understand what they're saying and can't help feel a bit jealous that they can store all this info and recall it for a discussion.
I can remember loads of details about cars, although I don't know what for, as nobody wants to talk about them, including me.
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Post by Skybird on Nov 24, 2009 9:06:19 GMT
I can hold a conversation with some people as long as it's just general conversation but when they start talking about some popular film or TV show or band, I always feel left out. This year I've found myself researching The X Factor just so I can join in the conversation.
It just seems that I'm never interested in what's popular.
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Post by Atticus on Nov 24, 2009 14:33:16 GMT
...i just dont know about anything even the things that i really should know about like games, football and tv shows. "Should" know about? aren't these just trivia?
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Post by Deleted on Nov 24, 2009 18:16:36 GMT
I dont know anything about anything either, BUT it doesn't stop me having an opinion LOL, Sounds like you've got lots of friends who don't stop talking..(are they all women?!!)
Sorry, I can't believe anyone has nothnig to say, (i'm good at extracting a conversation out of people), everyone is uniquely interesting imo & you need to have faith in youself..If people are talking a subject you dont know anything about, wait for the converstion to change?? Dont worry about it x
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Post by Deleted on Nov 25, 2009 5:10:13 GMT
trust me i have opinions aswell but i can never explain them properly, i talk too fast and i can never control the dam thing, i tell somebody something i can see the same expression on their faces as i see all the time, its an expression of "wuh?"... i realy do feel retarded sometimes.
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Post by Deleted on Nov 25, 2009 12:25:56 GMT
I always find people will often take the things I say in the wrong light like am the most sexist bigeted person on the face of the earth, ie just trying to put me down usually as am my own person and wont follow there agenda.
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Post by Deleted on Nov 25, 2009 16:27:44 GMT
Aww Zed i bet u dont!!!
Safe what can i say LOL?!!! Not sexist or bigoted, just funny..
You both need friends who can just laugh at your blunders.
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Post by Deleted on Nov 25, 2009 22:00:13 GMT
safe ive never found you sexiest or biggoted just a genuinely funny nice guy. Look how you help your sister and care about people. Your too hafrd kn self. lol
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