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Post by magicnick1990 on Dec 2, 2009 1:08:47 GMT
Okay... I'm currently seeing this girl. I'm 19 from Britain by the way. Erm, so by "seeing" I mean just that, dating in the broad sense. Not officially together yet.
I saw her in town a few weeks ago and we've been texting back n forth since then and met up about four times. But we've sort of known 'of' each other for years since we're from the same area / town.
Anyway, she usually txts me every day. She does work a lot and this is a bit of a problem for us as she doesn't naturally have that much time to see me. But she does like me she said and she saw my mate in town the other week and he said she told him she really likes me...
I guess I become obsessive as at first it's always "meh I don't need anybody" but then one day with no contact and I'm like "okay what's going on!" lmao. SO I gave in Sunday and texted her and she text back etc. But she didn't txt me Monday or today...
The last meeting went well, am I wrong to think this is a sign of her wanting to... Distance herself from me without saying it or do you just think it's a natural... Dilution of contact since you start off texting every day then just once every few days or what... Aw I dno. I hope she still likes me, I don't wanna seem needy though, that's unnatractive and I know that lol. I think I'm falling for her though.
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Post by andy12345 on Dec 2, 2009 2:08:25 GMT
Your thoughts are like most on here no doubt, whirlwind, chaotic, unhelpful and damaging to yourself. You are just going to be "obsessed" without any clear method of dealing with it.. Your quantum brain- will calculate all possibilities before they can even occur. What if this What if that goto 0 repeat run program error error It 's going to torture you if you let it. I think you need to find a monastery where they make er....vodka (very small bottles) and take a vow of silence, because until you get medicated, you will only hurt yourself and probably her, all totally without meaning to.... The emotional roller coaster ride. Once you get medicated, apparently, you will see things differently. Does that make any sense or have I entered fullyramblomatic mode? I mean, to the others' reading this, what is a correct amount of textage or communication per day for someone you care about or are a friend of blah blah? Also, being my very precise reading self, I missed the bit on line 6 about "her telling your friend that she really likes you" I can only imagine what she is thinking right now if not asleep. "omg, why doesn't jon text me much" All you need is two ADHD'ers and the world will blow up too often probably. If you are anything like me, you are all or nothing, 1 or 0, yes or no, black or white, either she is or she is not...... with a partial percent chance of a grey, compromising area. Good luck Jick.
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