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Post by Deleted on Dec 2, 2009 9:57:51 GMT
What gets me into trouble, no matter how hard i try, is wanting to know answerts to things there and then, and pushing people till i get response. Is that adhd, its like fear of not knowing or able to control somthing. It gets me down.
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Post by boo on Dec 2, 2009 19:49:37 GMT
i dont know meggs, but i am just the same. and i find that any answer will invariably lead to another question and another and another until i am 'satisfied' i have covered all angles, and once i have a curiosity for whatever it may be, well, dog with a bone springs to mind.
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Post by Mouse on Dec 5, 2009 17:20:19 GMT
I am the same at work - I have to work really hard to remember this though, because when I am waiting for an answer or want to drill down to the cause of a problem and understand all aspects I get quite intense (and am a pain in the a*se, well, even more of a PITA than normal). When there's something I need to now I can be relentless and single-minded. Sometimes the 'righteous' mode kicks in too, so a double whammy of PITA, when I am vindicated by the outcome of a situation..
At other times I will want an answer but then get bored with the having to quest for information/answers and can't be bothered to put too much effort in, as I knwo that I will end up stressed by doing this, so just cut out the messy 'effort' bit of the equation and let things sort themselves out.
At work I have to help members of the public find information but as I feel I haven't received anything resembling a coherent and organised training in using the various systems I hate it. I need to know the ins and outs, how to operate the various packages and be able to give answers straight away - so would agree that having the answers is about feeling in control.
I get super- stressed when I am dead-ended by lack of knowledge.
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