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Post by Deleted on Jan 9, 2010 13:12:54 GMT
Hi, im desperately unhappy , as anybody knows had a load of stress just lately. Ive just taken a massive wage drop, as iwas doing a job i couldnt do, its another big let down as i was forced to leave nursing for same reasons. Im in a place which is horrible, i got swore at the other day by manager. Im expected to do training on day off and not get paid for it. I get 20 days holiday and no extra bank hoildays ive even had to pay for my crb police check. Im going on a debt managment plan so i can afford to be without a job. My gp wont fund my drug atamoxtine as its not licencsed in adults, so i have got to fight for it. Im totally unhappy, i cant focus or concerntrate, so depressed its unbelivable. I cry everyday , and hate my life. Which adhd has ruined. The saying try you best and you will suceed hasnt orked for me, cause ive tried and not suceeded.
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Post by Lame44 on Jan 9, 2010 22:39:17 GMT
Oh noooo hon There's me on about how it's goin' with the new job and it seems it's not good by looking here I'd start by looking for another job if I were you hon, I know it's hard, but the sooner you get another job the better by the sounds of it. As for the meds, is there anything else you can try, that is licensed for adults? Ask your GP what he 'can' do not what he 'cant'! GP's are funny at times, n if you dont get any luck I'd go see a different one of them too while you are at it hon. I do hope you can get another job hon. I get stuck with dead end jobs that no one will do and that the employers always break the rules as far as I'm concerned, they wont pay me the legal minimum wage, I dont get extra for working around Christams and New Years and recently I nearly fell on the floor because of the way she was about my operation which I was due to have..... I was due to have another operation on my chest, and I told my employer about it right at the start. Then I have a week off due to cold, but with bad chest, then she calls me n asks me if I'm still going in the next week, which I say yes. She then says she wants to go away n wants to make sure I'm working so and so date, two of the dates are two days after my op. I remind her n she says...'I tell you the dates you will work, not the other way around' so you will be ok to come in for the couple of days just two days after your operation. Never mind the fact I'll prob still be in hospital, but it's either work, or get the sack. Needless to say the op I had to cancel! Employers are so maen at times, n you shouldn't ahve to put up with them treating you like they do hon, n swearing at you is not on....stand there next time , n say in a firm voice 'I beg your pardon'! Make sure people are around n watch them squirm. As they employ you, they should not treat you badly, and if they do, then they are not worth working for...I know this, but I also know how hard it is without the money, so yet you stay n get treated like it, when really it's not on. Which is why I say start looking now before it gets too bad at work n you leave without anything to fall back on.
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Post by Lame44 on Jan 9, 2010 22:41:34 GMT
If all that makes sense, lol
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Post by Deleted on Jan 9, 2010 22:52:18 GMT
Hi hun
Sorry it's such a bad day. PM me if it helps ok?
Jose
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Post by Deleted on Jan 9, 2010 22:53:47 GMT
It does when we gonna set up this support group?
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Post by Deleted on Jan 9, 2010 22:56:45 GMT
Ryan you ever worked with learning disabilities? i have a feeling cause your so bubbly youd be fantastic. I could get you a JOB
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Post by Deleted on Jan 9, 2010 22:57:02 GMT
Erm maybe when one of us can remember what day it is
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