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Post by shiningbright on May 25, 2016 18:45:36 GMT
So so haivng a great few days.
I love My husband and he loves me. That's enough for us. But a lady who in used to v all sister but now I don't know what she is too me. Has repeated suggested that I'm a bad wife. Which is bad enough. Then today out of the blue, she hasn't spontaneously text me I'm ages, she texts and is "telling" me to take better care of my husband. To make sure I cook good and healthy food. I'm now crying in the shower :-(
He was in a car accident yesterday, yes he's in pain and needs rest and tlc but he's only broken his arm. We are in and out of the hospital as he preps for an op to fix the arm. Between hospital trips I'm dealing with his boss, insurance, his work (ive got to do it for him til next week atleast), two young children one of whom is teething and hardly sleeping, plus cooking and other chores. My house is upside down yes but so is hers, no one is perfect.
I'm sorry. I'm just feeling so hurt and sad right now. The hardest thing about my daily struggles is that the things I want to do (cooking and housework) I'm not skilled at (yet) and the things I don't want to do (paperwork mostly) I get left with. And cos I'm so distracted trying to force myself to do stupid paperwork that isn't even mine is part of why my house is a mess- i have to prioritise and I can't do work and house work- each day or hour is o be or the others else I get confused and stressed.
Arg My head hurts- i hate crying. I was meant to get an early night but I doubt I'll be able to sleep after this.
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Post by shiningbright on May 25, 2016 20:26:13 GMT
Update - feeling better now (for now, I feel like an emotional ping pong latey!) I spoke to my oh aand he kjust reminded me that he loves me and that with practise I'll get better at housework and such (I so hope I do - th inkn od do betterif I wawasn't so distracted by work but I digress... again... ). As for for the offending lady I've just told her all Iis well and invited her for the weekend- love conquers all! Lol
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