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Post by Bee on Jan 29, 2017 5:10:42 GMT
Hey, I know this is probably a bit weird, but is there anyone that would maybe have a chat with me? I've got some stuff I'd really like to talk about - regarding matters of my awkward obsessive ADHD heart but don't really have anyone irl to talk to that might even begin to understand.
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Post by easilydistracted on Jan 29, 2017 23:03:56 GMT
Having just put myself through the weirdly obsessive ADHD heart thing and had it broken *again* Someone talked to me for more than about 30 seconds and the next thing in my head I'm naming our grandchildren and the dog we'll walk on the beach when we retire etc etc. Only for reality to crash around my ears when it became obvious that I'd *completely* misread the situation Oh, how a heart can rise so high and fall so low. Anyways, guess that makes me completely qualified. Hmm, apart from the "I'd *completely* misread the situation" part which marks me as completely unqualified!!! Oh yeah, and I'm not a girly Hmm, not that I can even provide a male view either as they are complete aliens to me! Ah well, the thought was there
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Post by marionk on Jan 30, 2017 14:27:48 GMT
You mean to meet up somewhere? I don't think we're in the same area, but if you are anywhere near London, I have to go up there (down really-I'm north of L) a few times in the coming weeks, so it's on the cards.
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Post by Bee on Jan 30, 2017 17:22:04 GMT
easilydistracted haha I know that feeling too well! If only a bit of logic would present itself before we get so carried away. marionk I'd love to chat face to face, but I'm in the South West - London is quite far from me!
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Post by vagueandrandom on Jan 31, 2017 11:31:47 GMT
What do you mean by 'girly' chat? I've never been particularly girly. .I've always found other women difficult to understand. . until I met other women with ADHD. . I've been hiding for the past few days, but am back now and usually up for a chat
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Post by amelia on Feb 5, 2017 14:36:51 GMT
I'm so glad to hear I'm not the only one who gets obsessive about these things. I didn't realise that was part of the ADHD. I'm completely logical when it comes other peoples relationships but with my own I am terrible, I can't let things go until they are resolved or they drive me nuts and I get possesive.
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Post by hanonymouse on Feb 8, 2017 14:44:36 GMT
What do you mean by 'girly' chat? I've never been particularly girly. .I've always found other women difficult to understand. . until I met other women with ADHD. . I've been hiding for the past few days, but am back now and usually up for a chat Being a guy, I'm the same, but the opposite, I get on much better with women than men. Not saying I understand either of them, but generally get on better with females. Same things with age group, I always get on with people much older or much younger and rarely get on with people of my own age group. But then I'm a bit weird!
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Post by Bee on Feb 10, 2017 6:54:47 GMT
Thanks for the replies, marionk helped to untangle everything lol and it's all gravy now!
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Post by Mouse on Apr 22, 2017 15:25:01 GMT
I appreciate all has been sorted - or 'girly chatted' ... but I was thinking it would be good to have a network of 'girly chatters' even though I don't think I'm particularly girly myself!
Sometimes you really need female ADHD view input... when you know non-ADHD input won't cut the mustard!
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