lisauk74
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Post by lisauk74 on Jan 17, 2018 13:54:54 GMT
It's bad enough that I am still trying understand the way I do things esp it only been confirmed in Dec last year that I have adhd, but to get another non adhd person to understand is even more difficult. I have a friend who in away has become a 2nd mum to me as my mum passed away in 2004, I don't speak with my dad so I am limited in the friends category. I sent her a link for her to read about understanding a person with adhd, but has not read it yet. I messed up with paying my council tax forgetting payments so additional costs have been added. I acknowledge that I messed up it was my fault so was telling her about it and all I get is "I don't know what to say", ummm well how about saying "well done for realising the mess up and glad you are sorting it out". so that has put me on another downer and another person I have disappointed or am I asking too much. when will I get a break from all this extra hassle of things to cope with. when things like this happen I tend to cut them out of my life so it's one less person to disappoint, but then that leaves me with no one close to me to talk to.
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deanyates
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Post by deanyates on Feb 2, 2018 22:26:29 GMT
You are the only person that can give you a break. As for your debt, take it with a pinch of salt. the world is in debt and it isn't even their money! without us worriers they wouldn't have a debt.. so your debt is only to keep the wealthy alive. If you don't have the money then they can't have it. simple as that. don't turn up at their courts because you don't have to.. stand your ground!! YOU are more important than money..hope you realise this.
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