"Child" to working "adult"
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Post by "Child" to working "adult" on Dec 4, 2020 23:07:38 GMT
As an ADHD child I had too much support, more than I knew what to do with, as an adult I'm challenged with "you should have grown out if it by now" "ADHD is a name for naughty kids" not I found my mum's dead body over a year ago and it's still affecting me and I've been so strong for so long, even when I've taken a doctors letter it's been dismissed "you can't be using that as an excuse though" no I hate excuses but I have neurological disorder which affects me differently to other people, I am wise enough to understand but still doesn't control my outcome or other individuals with the same condition, I'm asked what is the matter and "when I remember the first time I was asked that question it took months years to realise my soul truth to help me get forward" but I am really having a hard time with it now??
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adz04
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Post by adz04 on Dec 5, 2020 12:22:16 GMT
ADHD isn’t an excuse it’s a reason. People can be callous and close-minded. Trauma such as seeing your mothers body would effect anyone in a bad way, however for people like us it can really hit us much harder, and I think this is because we obsessively think about it, and it feels impossible to get out of that cycle of negative thoughts. I don’t have the answers to living life with a brain that works like ours do unfortunately and i don’t know if I ever will. But one thing I am learning and also putting into practice is not hiding who I am and I’m finding that the people who like that side of me are attracted to that and the people that don’t like it are not, and that becomes obvious, which means I can filter out the people who I want to talk to and the people who I actively avoid. I think I’ve went off topic a little so I won’t ramble anymore but feel assured there are more people just like you. Adam
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