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Post by phil on Feb 7, 2011 5:47:30 GMT
To cut a long story short there's I someone I really like! But I got some really big hang up about getting with her What it is I believe I will just be a burden on her as I have loads of problems and it would not be fair on her as taking me on would be like her taking on a kid ;D
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Post by mizmog on Feb 7, 2011 9:55:28 GMT
Phil, does she know??
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Post by phil on Feb 7, 2011 14:30:34 GMT
Does she know what lol ;D sorry it's a bit of an open question lol she knows I got ADHD she knows I snore but has not caught me chatting in my kip or turning blue! I don't think she knows the extent of how it effects my life! Does she know I like her more than likely lol I'm like a puppy I make mess I have bouts of depression and can't be having why questions that I got to try and explain the unexplained lol
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Post by andy12345 on Feb 7, 2011 15:38:52 GMT
It shows your good humanity phil, to not burden someone, when some other unsavoury people would just satisfy their own needs.....
You get the certificate of humanity.
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Post by mizmog on Feb 7, 2011 15:45:16 GMT
but maybe on the flip side... u said she probably does know how u feel and about the ADHD, then maybe she sees past that and takes u for who u r?? having problems doesn't make u the devil spawn, its what you are warts and all... she might deserve a chance to make her own mind up?
what I am saying is dont count yourself out of the picture until you know at least some of how she feels about it, you could be missing a wonderful thing and so could she....
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Post by andy12345 on Feb 7, 2011 15:45:48 GMT
oh, yes, and ...what mizmog said..
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Post by Mouse on Feb 9, 2011 21:05:03 GMT
Ditto - let her have the chance to make up her own mind.
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Post by boo on Feb 9, 2011 21:18:57 GMT
totally agree, we all have good and bad points, and we all worry about our bad ones outweighing the good (well some more than others maybe, but you know what i mean)
i am sure there are things she worries about that you dont realise, and they are probably things you dont or wouldnt think twice about, but she wouldnt know that .....
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Post by phil on Feb 10, 2011 1:50:57 GMT
Thank you Boo you have just clicked something in my brain and unknowingly opened pandora's box she is different and is so open with me ;D I know she has hang up's she has told me! And I know she has a heart of gold ;D Ooooh watch this space ;D
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Post by Deleted on Feb 10, 2011 18:25:26 GMT
*whilst making awooga noises*
Get in there my son!
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Post by boo on Feb 10, 2011 20:16:37 GMT
wicked
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Post by Deleted on Feb 11, 2011 9:10:31 GMT
Just another supporter, give her the chance to decide what she can and can't cope with, apart from anything she may not even see it as coping she may see it as support or comfort in fact she could be so aware of u as a person she could even just feel at ease with u so much it's not anything but just being with u. X
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