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Post by Deleted on Apr 16, 2011 18:38:14 GMT
I can't cope with friends I find they are too much for me to deal with... too much of a commitment. The whole idea of it is way too complicated for me to do. Life feels too much of a juggling act as it is... I can't add other people into the equation as well. My parents, husband and daughter are all I can cope with really. Oh, and the clients I have - I'm a gardener. I like talking to them and they seem to really like me too. But anymore than that and I'm overwhelmed.
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Post by Ravendarque on Apr 16, 2011 19:05:46 GMT
I have only a few close friends but quite a few 'going out' friends. The difference for me is that close friends are the only people I can be with 1-to-1 and I'll tell them more personal stuff. However, I can't usually comfortably have them round my house or be seeing them too often. It seems to work though. Maybe easier for guys as we're a bit more aloof anyway.
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Post by Deleted on Apr 16, 2011 20:30:08 GMT
I have more "associates" than friends. Like you said, when I have too many friends, things get a little to chaotic?... I get a little aaahhhh!
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Post by kakema on Apr 16, 2011 21:15:19 GMT
A few of my friendships are incredibly important to me. The rest are nice, but I know they're temporary.
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Post by azz on Apr 16, 2011 21:45:17 GMT
I have more "associates" than friends. Like you said, when I have too many friends, things get a little to chaotic?... I get a little aaahhhh! This comment is somewhat undermined by the huge banner in your sig ;D
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Post by phil on Apr 16, 2011 22:22:56 GMT
Lol azz you're paying attention are you sure you're not a jurno ;D LMFAO
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Post by Deleted on Apr 17, 2011 2:08:09 GMT
Haha yeah, unless your familiar with irony.
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Post by sherry on Apr 17, 2011 21:19:35 GMT
I am totally with you, I work with the public, but I am not a great fan of them either. I don't do ppl lol, wierd cause lots of them like me?
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Post by Deleted on Apr 17, 2011 21:25:10 GMT
i've only ever had 2 friends at any one time. i would like to have more but i just never have.
but i think the difference with me is that my friends are my best friends. i tell everything to people i call my friends. i don't have people that i just go down the pub with (don't drink anyway but if i did) and don't really have a relationship any deeper than that. i don't really do acquaintences.
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Post by Deleted on Apr 17, 2011 21:27:08 GMT
I spend most of my time with the disabled. I like them, they get 'it'.
I've always gravitated to the freak/alternate side (punks/goths/bikers/hippies/self sufficients etc).
I'm not good at friends. I usually have a couple but I lose them very easily and it's a lot of work.
ADHDers are best - they get the random shouting and moodyness and I get theirs.
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Post by Deleted on Apr 17, 2011 21:29:36 GMT
I've always gravitated to the freak/alternate side (punks/goths/bikers/hippies/self sufficients etc). same
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Post by boo on Apr 17, 2011 23:19:01 GMT
i dont really have any, probably partly because of the reasons you have described.
and i cant imagine ever having somebody close enough for me to share my more innermost thoughts and stuff
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Post by Leonid on Apr 18, 2011 11:28:15 GMT
I'm not very good at having friends - I'd often much rather just sit in my room than spend time with other people! Don't ever feel completely comfortable... There's one person I might describe as a close friend (in that I tell her a bit more than I tell most people - though still not all that much) but she's been in Spain since September Oh and there's one person whom I don't mind spending a lot of time with because she also doesn't mind sitting on adjacent sofas and playing on our respective laptops (on one occasion we found ourselves watching the same TV programme, about ten minutes apart). She's gone back to Australia now, though... I'm beginning to see a pattern!
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Post by Deleted on Apr 18, 2011 18:12:14 GMT
Anybody else have really intense, very short lived friendships? Looking back to school, I had the same core group of friends. But one day, someone new and interesting would my bestest friend for the day. The day after, I'd be "done" with them. Makes me feel bad thinking about it now...
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Post by phil on Apr 18, 2011 18:57:23 GMT
I have friends I don't see for years then it's a better laugh remembering old times ;D you're mates are you're muckers family on the other hand do my head in! My brother is what you would call fucking daft but my mother blaims this on his infant school education! As well as learning the ABC alphabet in school he was taught what everyone else was taught the phonic alphabet! ;D Today he tried making out that when the battery on my mobile was dead there is a reserve battery that still makes the phone alarm on! And to add more bollocks to his bollocks story he came up with if the battery is dead on you're mobile phone the phone still let's you phone the police ;D I told him he spends too much time on the PC playing stupid games and it is effecting his intelligence! He is learning this stupid game but has very little life skills! With that I asked him what colour peacock eggs are his reply was what do I know about peacocks eggs are? That's another thing I'm full of shit this is his argument if mobile phones don't have reserve batteries how comes the time on the phone is right? I told him that the time settings on a mobile phone are auto corrected by GPRS! I told him he could well have ADHD he said well you have not got it I don't see you cleaning up all the time! I told him that's OCD and a lot of people with ADHD can have OCD but it don't mean that you are constantly cleaning at all spending in excess of 10 hours a day on one stupid computer game makes my brother a candidate for OCD he probably has ADHD but he will live in denial and just use the bollocks excuses that the phonic alphabet is the reason behind why he is so stupid! Faced with the facts he would not believe he had ADHD ;D
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Post by kakema on Apr 18, 2011 21:04:21 GMT
What colour ARE peacock eggs?
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Post by Deleted on Apr 18, 2011 21:14:07 GMT
peacocks don't lay eggs
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Post by kakema on Apr 18, 2011 21:54:35 GMT
Duh. I knew that ( ) In my defence, I'm in a hospital bed with many fine drugz in my system, having just woken up from a minor op.
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Post by phil on Apr 18, 2011 22:07:08 GMT
A cock is a male bird A hen is a female bird ;D male birds don't lay eggs so it was a simple intelligence test just to see how bad his intelligence is! He is five years older than me ;D I swear he has ADHD! But there's nothing I could say or do would convince him that he could have ADHD :/ Ignorance is bliss < yet that is total shit and I have seen the light and know I have ADHD and just accepting I have ADHD what I have learnt has changed me! And other people are seeing a change in me in some ways I've been told I'm a hell of a lot calmer for starters
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Post by phil on Apr 20, 2011 1:21:08 GMT
this is what my brother is devoting over 100 hours a week to and within the last week of so he has drank one huge bottle of bacardi and 2 big bottles of sminoff
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Post by optomistic65 on Apr 20, 2011 7:07:45 GMT
LOL you're not the only one Shiney, I was also sitting here thinking "hmmm that's a really interesting point, I wonder what colour they are?"
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Post by kakema on Apr 20, 2011 9:23:20 GMT
Yeah, but my mind was befuddled with drugz! What's your excuse ?
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Post by andy12345 on May 3, 2011 15:54:16 GMT
Friendships? What is this alien concept?
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Post by kreate on May 3, 2011 18:20:01 GMT
My partners get fed up of my adhd, i get social anxiety so act very over the top at times, (tho not recently as im newly single lol) ho hum. My friends love it though (sometimes if they are not tired), but then they dont have to live with me lol.
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