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Post by blaze on Apr 22, 2015 10:20:40 GMT
I WD consider myself straight but cdnt figure out how to vote on my phone- so the results arnt accurate re that at least
I also think in general, sexuality isn't quite as clear cut as categories make it- perhaps having adhdmakes us more confortable being 'different' and easier to identify our sexuality as more fluid than smone whose experience of life is v clear cut, nt, straight forward etc
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Post by tati on May 27, 2015 16:17:21 GMT
I think I'm straight, but I like the average feminine shape, so soft and curvy. I don't know, I find it to be better looking than the average male appearance. Despite this, I'm physically/sexually attracted to those other rough and hairy creatures without boobs...
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Post by chaoticwitch on May 31, 2015 15:55:28 GMT
I have no idea, I have had unsuccessful sexual relationships with both men and women.
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Post by hermanli on Nov 26, 2015 17:08:58 GMT
I am 99.99% Heterosexual. On rare occasions, I will be talking to a male friend, and all of a sudden I will have a strong urge to kiss him. At the same time, my vision will go, most my hearing also goes and I have an 'out of body feeling', so I think I am just having a seizure, so I don't think that should count. This made me snort, haha. (not in any bad way) something very funny about it. I think its the fact that you are 99.99% heterosexual. regarding the faintness, Ive saw an article about this but am having trouble finding it again!
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Post by aj on Jan 31, 2016 1:04:47 GMT
I think of myself as asexual, panromantic. I did wonder for a while if I might have been pansexual, but it eventually occurred to me that whether the person is a good hugger/listener is basically my only criteria for possible partners Frankly as long as someone can put up with me ADDing everywhere and sit through hours of me babbling about how Doctor Who has gone downhill over the last few years, that's good enough for me.
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Post by Rebel on Feb 5, 2016 10:43:46 GMT
I'm not sure if anyone is still looking for input on this but I'm pansexual and panromantic.
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Post by Babble on Feb 26, 2016 16:18:04 GMT
I'm starting to think I might be panromantic asexual.
Am I wrong in thinking that you can be pansexual but also asexual?
I know a lot of asexual people still have sex with their SO's, they just don't feel sexual attraction - so if you don't care what gender (or non-gender) your partner is...?
That may be me making things up. It happens.
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Post by marylg on Apr 23, 2016 22:05:26 GMT
I'm starting to think I might be panromantic asexual. Am I wrong in thinking that you can be pansexual but also asexual? I know a lot of asexual people still have sex with their SO's, they just don't feel sexual attraction - so if you don't care what gender (or non-gender) your partner is...? That may be me making things up. It happens. Sexuality and romanticism aren't (necessarily) the same thing. You can want to have sex (sexuality) with someone that you don't want to get romantically/emotionally close to. Also, you can get romantically close (emotionally intimate/in love) to people without wanting to have sex. I'm pansexual, panromantic. I'm sexually and romantically/emotionally interested in both sexes (although I married a specific person and obviously committed solely to them for the duration). I have friends who are asexual and heteroromantic (she's not really interested in sex as it's icky, but has a long and satisfying romantic relationship with her boyfriend who she lives with), aromantic and heterosexual (not interested in getting romantically close to anyone, has a "catch and release" programme going on in her sex life as the mood takes her), biromantic and heterosexual (only really interested in sex with men, but has a few relationships with women which are pretty romantic with dates and quality time together). There's a lot of variation out there. The only real thing that I find relevant is that all parties involved in any relationship (partners and any dependents/children) are getting their emotional, mental and physical (including sexual where appropriate) needs met by the relationship and are honest with each other. Are you happy together? Are you having enjoyable sex if you want it or kisses or cuddles/snuggles etc.? Are you supporting each other in things you need or are interested in? if you have kids are they getting all their needs met? What else matters?
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Post by Bee on Apr 24, 2016 0:51:24 GMT
Crikey, there is a LOT more to this than I ever imagined! I don't think the bisexual label fits me any more, now that there are better ways of describing it!
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Post by Babble on Apr 25, 2016 8:59:30 GMT
That's why I'm starting to say I'm panromantic asexual. I'm not particularly interested in sex, but I am interested in having a partner. I'm just of the opinion that so long as you love someone, surely it doesn't matter what gender they are. And I've never been particularly gender conscious in the first place. But because I'm the paragon of self-doubt and self-recrimination, I always feel like I'm a sham when I say stuff. ADD? I'm just lazy. Depression? Just pathetic. Panromantic & asexual? Considering my track record of romantic and sexual relationships (a grand total of 0), what right have I got to claim any of that? How can I? I've tried to talk to people about it before, because it's a subject I'm interested in and one I've struggled with (my teenage years were hella confusing) but it just tends to end in a certain phrase being used that I hate with the passion of a billion suns: 'special snowflake'. So freaking demeaning. Urgh. Bee Tumblr really opened my eyes to the vast and confusing realm of sexuality and gender lol Fun so long as you avoid the trolls.
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Post by butterfly01 on Jul 24, 2020 17:03:20 GMT
thank you i have always been high sex and like both sexes sorry i am dyslexic too, i also thought myself as different and should not be feeling like this it is,t normal. i am glad i have read some of your reply's knowing that i am not alone
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