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Post by gaylejoyce90 on Sept 14, 2015 8:35:27 GMT
I have suffered with this stupid illness all my life. Was diagnosed with it this year along with multiple personality disorder and I am finally being medicated. The problem is the tablets aren't working right now and the Dr is struggling to find the right dose to get me back on track. I am in a relationship that is crumbling in front of my eyes because of this stupid illness and I just want it to go away and I want an easy life. Iv cried for 2 weeks straight and I am really struggling to cope. I want this illness to go away and I want to be normal. How can I save my relationship and be a better person when this illness is so strong and over powering?
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jonbob
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Post by jonbob on Sept 14, 2015 8:50:03 GMT
I feel what you're saying Gayle.
You've certainly come to the right place and I'm sure you'll find everyone being supportive in terms of helping a fellow ADHDer. That being said, I'm not going to steamroll you with advice. I can see you're in a delicate position right now and wouldn't want to say anything that might impact you in the wrong way.
Instead, I'll ask a question. We often have problems with focusing, everything can just seem to be 'way too much' So as a suggestion, perhaps - just for today - you could try and simplify things. So here's the question: What today is the one thing that you think you could do that could make today better? Nothing that changes the world, nothing that requires HUGE efforts. Just one simple thing that will have a positive impact. By the sounds of things, you could do with a win. So pick something, stick to it and celebrate the fact that you've done that thing at the end of today.
It's only a little step, but is a step.
I hope this helps.
J
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