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Post by Kathymel on May 30, 2013 21:01:59 GMT
... the house smells of burnt pasta and your having ice cream for dinner, but at least the dog got a walk.
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Post by Kathymel on May 30, 2013 19:22:37 GMT
Right, now let's see you do multiple quotes!
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Post by Kathymel on May 30, 2013 19:16:14 GMT
That sounds like a really good start. I'm happy for you. It seems like you might have hit the right meds from the off.
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Post by Kathymel on May 30, 2013 18:40:13 GMT
Is there anyone else a bit more assertive who could come with you to either the psych or your GP? It seems like no one really understands your situation and no one is listening.
Is this psych supposed to be a specialist?
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Post by Kathymel on May 30, 2013 18:37:18 GMT
Oh, I'm sorry to hear that! It seems like everything has been a bit crap lately, for you. I wish I could reach through my computer and give you a hug. We're all here for you and at least on here we understand. xXx
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Post by Kathymel on May 30, 2013 16:46:47 GMT
I'd be tempted to flash the discrimination card. They obviously have to check that controlled drugs are not going to someone who shouldn't have them, but to practically humiliate someone who has a disorder every time they walk in to get their prescription is unacceptable. Write them a letter and include the words 'disability discrimination'.
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Post by Kathymel on May 30, 2013 15:53:15 GMT
Yay! Well done, Jennifer. I usually manage to keep a room tidy for a couple of days because I'll be so proud of myself for doing it, but then one thing gets left out, then a second ... before you know it, it's hard to see the floor.
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Post by Kathymel on May 30, 2013 15:30:19 GMT
Thanks, Jan. So cheap!
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Post by Kathymel on May 30, 2013 15:11:21 GMT
Hi infrontofthescreen. It's great to hear you have a diagnosis, too! He made the same recommendations to Janev, in terms of it being too far. I hope it doesn't take too long, going through your GP, though it will likely be a fair few months. Fingers crossed for you.
Manson, it sounds like you are surrounded by people who are unsympathetic, but your wife not understanding must be a hard one to take. Would she be willing to read one of the books that are out there for partners of people with ADHD? It would be such a boost for you to feel like you had someone on your side, I'm sure. Good luck with the complaints procedure.
Thanks, Dizzy. How are you feeling today?
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Post by Kathymel on May 29, 2013 23:26:46 GMT
Got my diagnosis! Updated my blog! I think that's pretty good for one day.
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Post by Kathymel on May 29, 2013 23:25:10 GMT
Hey, you updated your blog! Don't forget to add that to the 'I did it' thread you started. I'd completely forgotten about that thread. I'll do that. x
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Post by Kathymel on May 29, 2013 23:02:14 GMT
Thanks, John. She's already said she is happy to do shared care, so it should be OK. *crosses fingers*
She has also been annoyingly slow at times, so I may have to hone my pester-power. We'll see.
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Post by Kathymel on May 29, 2013 22:58:44 GMT
I'll keep my fingers crossed for you for tomorrow, though not sure I'd be wise to hold my breath ...
That's a good point about recognising a pile of bs excuses when you hear them. If my degree was in excuse and justification invention, I'd have a first in the bag, no probs. He should know better.
Let us know, won't you. x
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Post by Kathymel on May 29, 2013 22:45:40 GMT
now on amazon can get same stuff and if pay by dd they deliver it automatically every 2 months for free and its only 38 quid - result - and dog never goes hungry. Could you send me the name of the supplier please, Jan? Automatic delivery sounds great. x
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Post by Kathymel on May 29, 2013 22:36:02 GMT
Thanks, JJ. Sorry to keep you on tenterhooks. Weds is the day my son and I always go to the pictures and eat dreadful crap food afterwards (rather than just eating dreadful crap food in the house). I couldn't wait to get back here and tell everyone. I think the idea of getting my dissertation in early might be pushing it, though.
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Post by Kathymel on May 29, 2013 22:29:57 GMT
Congratulations. So glad it went well, after you had the courage to try out the unknown quantity of a brand-new service. Thanks, Inachisio. I think they still have a few wrinkles to iron out, but they have been fabulous at keeping me informed. So glad I went with them, now.
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Post by Kathymel on May 29, 2013 21:38:26 GMT
Thanks, guys.
How are you doing today, Manson?
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Post by Kathymel on May 29, 2013 20:31:30 GMT
I'm lucky if I get to bed before 2am and often it's nearer 3-4 and sometimes I don't bother at all. It makes no difference if I have work in the morning or not.
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Post by Kathymel on May 29, 2013 20:27:59 GMT
Thanks, Petra. Just hope my GP behaves herself. Fingers crossed.
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Post by Kathymel on May 29, 2013 20:26:27 GMT
Oh, JJ, what a pain in the arse this has been for you right down the line.
No one should have to battle with this level of incompetence on top of the disorder they are trying to deal with. If this is the same woman on reception who was disciplined last time, she should be bloody sacked this time. It sounds like she's on a power trip.
Hugs. x
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Post by Kathymel on May 29, 2013 20:20:29 GMT
Thanks guys for all your messages.
He was really nice, spent about an hour and a half talking and I have a diagnosis! ADD! He said he will write to my GP with his report and a prescription. I just have to have blood pressure, ECG etc and then I should get meds. Whoop!
What a relief! Not quite sure what to do with myself, now ...
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Post by Kathymel on May 29, 2013 9:30:03 GMT
I always buy my dog food in 15kg bags from pets at home own brand because its really cheap and then I don't have to remember very often to get it (poor dog ) I do the same, but still forget at the end of every bag. My dog ends up getting bread, noodles or pasta for a couple of days. The look on his face as we're waiting for the pasta to cool ... it's torture.
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Post by Kathymel on May 29, 2013 9:24:02 GMT
OMG, I can't tell you how nervous I am!
This new service I'm using isn't particularly organised just yet so, although the psych got in touch yesterday and asked if I was free this afternoon and asked what time, he didn't confirm until this morning. I didn't want to jinx it by saying anything yesterday.
So, I'm seeing him at 1.0!
Got all the usual worries. What if he doesn't reckon I've got ADHD? What if he thinks it's not bad enough to be worth treating? What if I have to wait months for meds? What if all my fidgets abandon me in the consultation? What if ... ?
All I keep thinking is that I've got 3 months until I'm back at uni and starting my dissertation. Surely 3 months is enough to get something sorted, right? But then I think of all the hassle and crap people have put up with on here and I start worrying all over again. Gah!
Deep breath. I've got lots of notes. Lots and lots of notes. And school reports. I'll be fine. Right.
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Post by Kathymel on May 29, 2013 9:07:58 GMT
Also, I have a sneaking suspicion that kathymel shoved that poor dog's head into that cone Prove it. ;D
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Post by Kathymel on May 28, 2013 22:26:14 GMT
You seem to have a very unadventurous doctor. Most stories I've read on here suggest they are happy to swap meds after just a few weeks if they don't seem to be helping. I would be tempted to insist on something else if you still feel the same in a week or two. Good luck. x
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Post by Kathymel on May 28, 2013 22:13:53 GMT
Oh, are we supposed to be mature on here? Damn!
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Post by Kathymel on May 28, 2013 21:39:17 GMT
What a difference from what your doctor said. I hope you make sure he knows he was wrong.
Congratulations on getting the right diagnosis, now. And meds straight away. Fingers crossed you get on with them.
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Post by Kathymel on May 28, 2013 16:57:59 GMT
I started looking it up, but I got distracted ...
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Post by Kathymel on May 28, 2013 16:56:41 GMT
This is the online CBT course I mentioned on a different thread. I couldn't remember the name. I found it very useful for becoming aware of what I was putting myself through with my 'wonky thinking'.
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Post by Kathymel on May 28, 2013 14:22:03 GMT
Now, where was I ... ?
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